Who has baby daddy advice?

I have seen this before with a few friends and one of my family members and all i can say is if he cant handle being there for you while your caring his unborn child its a good chance but not a defendant possibility that he wont be there for you after the child is born.... or for the child.... and if he is it might not be the support you want or thought u would have BUT that doesn't mean its a good idea to keep him away from the baby you and him is you and him but he is still the father if he chooses to put less important things in front of his child thats his mistake and he will be the one missing out and at least your baby will have you and when the child becomes older you wont have to worry about him/her blaming you for keeping them apart he/she will see it was his choice not to be a father. the only way i would see keeping him away from the child a good thing is if he was doing drugs or drinking around the child or being abusive towards the child other than that i would always keep the opportunity open for him to see the child as far as you two none of us on here know him or you really?? go with your gut hunnie i first became pregnant at 18 and had my daughter at 19 i was with the father for 2 years prior to the baby kinda just like you and ur guy BUT he was there for me in every way while i was pregnant he never was a party guy he would drink and get drunk here and there and hang with his friends but it all changed when i became pregnant he even came home and cleaned the house after i had the baby while i was still in the hospital just so i could be totally relaxed when i got home if your guy isnt acting the way you want him to now chances are slim that he will change i hope for you and your baby he does but some guys dont and some guys do when they see there baby its like a 50/50 thing.... now what ive said may make my life with my babys father sound perfect but no one is we have had are ups and downs... god knows we have.. but i always knew he was going to be a great dad his dad was never around and neither was mine i seen how he was with kids which was great and i knew from the moment i became pregnant that he would be there for our daughter whether he wanted to be with me or not and thats what honestly counts!! ive been in your shoes and if your gut is telling you hes been unfaithful chances are you are right.... god knows i was!!! but that doesnt mean you two wont last but that depends on if you can forgive and if he can change but in order for change to happen he has to really want it.. and from personal experience forgiveness is sooooooo much harder than him changing.. i forgave but never forgot and that did not help anything until i broke up with him and went out with an old boyfriend even tho i didnt cheat it hurt him crushed him is more like it i never really even wanted to be with that guy now years later i look back and realize i was just getting back at him and after that we got back together and ya know what i didnt throw up him cheating on me in fights anymore but thats me i still have not forgot but i feel we are even now so it dont bother me...as much... but if i could do it over i would have went a different route getting even isnt always the best thing but it worked for ME but i wouldnt try it k anyway like i said we got over it and im now on child number 2 and we are married and very happy and he never has done that again we now have been together for 8years and out of those 8 been married for 3 no one on here is really gonna have the answers you need on your question about the quote if its meant to be it will come back and its yours.... almost all asshole guys who dont deserve a good women will keep coming back cause they know how lucky they are and have had there fun already that doesnt mean you should take them back based off of that take them back not because they came back but because of there actions make him work for it you deserve that!!!! hopefully my out look on the situation/advice and story has maybe helped you in some way!!! best of luck for you and congrats on your little bundle of joy being a mother truly is the best thing in life :) with me and my husband we were young and dumb but made it threw it but you both have to want it not just you!!