I hate myself. im boring, stupid, and ugly?

็Hi, stop hating yourself. Love yourself, change yourself in the better way. I have got this message from somewhere : If everybody loves you, something is wrong. You can't please everybody. That is really true. Love yourself and send your love to people. Do not expect the feedback just send your love. :)

Which Frat should I pledge too?

I'm starting college in two months and have been asked to pledge to several frats, kappa sigma, delta chi, and delta tau delta. I wanna join a frat that likes to have a good time, but I also want one that is a close knit brotherhood. One where you roll deep (travel in a large group) everywhere you go. So out of those three, which one sounds right for me

How does one forget about a love... one that needs to be forgot?

Well, yes, it goes away, but you have to contribute for the transitional period to be successful. Because the information you've provided here is insufficient for me to give you a good answer, I suggest you talk to a friend, a hotline if available, your mother if your relationship with her is close enough, or, if you're the reading type and only if no other options are available, read the Sequences( wiki.lesswrong.com/wiki/Sequences ) to better determine what to do in order to rectify the problem.

Should I go back to college as an undergrad at age 24 to experience college life again and frat parties?

Most UCs do not allow second baccalaureates. For campus specific restrictions, see a href="http://www.universityofcalifornia.edu/admissions/counselors/transfer/helping-students/second-baccalaureate/index.html" rel="nofollow"http://www.universityofcalifornia.edu/ad…/a

I miss my boy <3 <3 <3?

if he likes the fags,and your don't,your out! hun,if he isn't even prepared to stop smoking for you then don't try getting back together,even though this question was about getting your man back, i DON'T think you should!

Seek old review/commentary on Cao Xueqin's novel 'The Story of the Stone'?

Many years ago, before I read Cao Xueqin's the novel initially, I found commentary by a Chinese reader from a couple hundred years ago about the strange addictive power this novel can impose on readers. Can anybody point me back to where I can find his comments? I subsequently read the novel, experienced the addiction full force, and have ever since wanted to go back to read what the commentator so correctly predicted. Any Story of the Stone fans out there?

Why are oakleys not frat?

Why are oakley brand sunglasses not frat? I don't like the way costas look and I don't want to spend $200 on a pair of ugly sunglasses. I just don't understand why oakleys are considered GDI

Is my behavior normal?

I was molested when i was 16 by three guys who were quite popular in the school .A girl ( their friend) was right there and did nothing. Later she advised me not to tell anyone as people would look down on me(I was in a country where molested and raped people are treated as lowly) and my reputation would suffer. She also told me to take it as a sexual experience and it was not like I was raped. So I did not tell anyone anything ( even my parents or anyone). 5 years later I try to remain aloof from almost everyone, do not trust anyone, hate frat and sorority people. I do not what kind of behavior this is. Any views, any suggestions( without sending me to a psychiatrist) ?

Why doesnt anyone care about me? is there something wrong with me?

There is nothing wrong with you. People are just generally ******* and use people for their own personal gain and then they toss them aside like garbage when they're done. It may take a little while, but I'm sure you'll eventually find some decent people who deserve to be friends with a nice girl like you. It's not your fault, its other peoples fault and you shouldn't beat yourself up just because some people can't just be kind to others

Don't you miss the days when G4 was a network exclusively about GAMING?

G4 used to be such an awesome network for nerds, and gamers, and now with the exception of X-Play, and E3 coverage it has become a network for stupid, Mountain Dew drinking frat boys...

Is there a link between nicotine addition and pleasure centers of the brain associated with sex?

A smoker without nicotine will feel stress which can only be alleviated by smoking; but are there other components to nicotine addiction?

My boyfriend falls asleep when im crying?

make a doctors appointment....it sounds like you have depression and you can take anti-deppressants for it...trust me they work and work good......you will start to feel better in just 2-3weeks...please its the easiest way to help you get out of the hole your in.

What has gotten into women towards black men?

Why would you even consider being attracted to a black guy. Are you mad in the head or something. Do you realize you all look like s*uts for finding yourself attracted to black men because of their stereotypical chocolate bar. The only thing they can get is probably sex but you bm will never be loved not even by bw because no race of women wants you. Now if you’re a bm with a small penis then you won‘t be looked at as a human. Bw want us wm, that’s why they show so much attitude towards you guys you know why? Because they know it keeps you away and then they use it s an excuse that there are no good bm which is a defense mechanism to make them look innocent. Why they’re trying to do is push you away so they have an excuse to date us non-bm. Bw have never been faithful, they have and always will be on our team, but your too thick to see that. Bw if you want us wm just come to us like every other race of women, I mean you seem to be more lady like with non black men then bm so that’s a 1up. Onto Asian women who we know adore us and we also adore them, they’ll always be attracted to us no matter what we look like as long as we are white. I adore them for not being attracted to bm. Same to Hispanics, Latinas not being attracted to bm is good to. Now onto ww, for years people have though our women were attracted to bm but they’re not. I always see ww getting bashed for liking dark skinned bm but I realized this is not the case. Its only the fat, low self esteem/ faulty ones attracted to bm. WW even prefer asian men over bm because they’re closer to ideal. Even bw don’t want you, they’ll rather stay single (70%) and show you attitude to keep you away then date you. I haven’t got an ego, but every race of women wants us, we’ve got whites, latinas, Asians, whites lusting after us and soon to be bw. I respect the light skinned bm though this is not directed towards you, only the dark skinned ones because they’re too different to everyone else. I’ve got female friends from every race latin, white, asian etc and do you know how we talk about you bm behind your backs, its not very good. So why would any sane women be attracted to bm, oh and if your not your on the right track.

What's the best way to cure addictions?

I have addictive problems with coffee, never smoked but from being around smokers I crave cigarettes. I have problems with alcohol and I have bad migraines and I fear I'm becoming dependent on my pain meds as well. What decides an addiction and how do I move from addiction to moderation?

What was the worst car you've owned?

Mine would have to be a 1990 Mercury Sable Wagon that I bought off the front lawn of a frat house when I was 18 for $100. It had about 190k miles on it and it's brakes blew when parking in my driveway one evening thanks to the fact that the whole car was just rotting away. It couldn't go over 43mph without fluttering to pieces and if you closed the tailgate too harshly the fuel cut off switch would activate rendering the car stuck. It was good on gas, though. But, when you can barely go above 40 you don't consume much anyway.

Is it REALLY a huge waste if Taker never faces Cena at Wrestlemania?

I think Undertaker should vs. Cena at WM28! That should have had The Rock vs. Cena at Summer Slam this year! But that are dumb *** retrad that just don't know how to book something right the days!

Why did sting refused to face undertaker at wm 28 ?

wwe wanted sting to face taker at wm 28 and they wanna give him a place at the hall of fame and said "no" why? does any knows?

Does Vince realize Cole has hurt WWE's products more than he helped them or Vince simply ignores this fact?

for some reason vince loves cole, i liked Cole's character but now its just boring. with the jerry and cole feud continuing all the heat has gone from it now and cole had to use cheap heat like mentioning Jerry's mother.

What "Formation" or "Style of play" epitomises your club...?

Well we have been known to play with a perfect balance of determination and flair which is a pass and move style football in the 70's and 80's which was great to watch made by the legendary Bill Shankly he made us play the wat football should be played. And as soon as Shankly retired, Bob Paisley carried on the pass and move football and it won us 21 titles in a space of NINE years. Shalkly and Paisley the greatest Liverpool managers ever.

Oxycodone and hydrocodone heaven on earth?

I found a way to get oxycodone and hydrocodone a friend of mine has chemotherapy and gets 120 count oxycodone and 120 count hydrocodone maybe twice a month, he doesnt use them though he hates pain killers. I have a question please no flaming just answer or dont. Thanks. Well I love the stuff. I take oxycodone usually 10mg every night or maybe hydrocodone usually 15mg when i dont take oxy ofcourse. have been doing this about two weeks. its safer than illegal drugs imo, except marijuana which i dont consider a drug. ik not to mix with alcohol or ssri meds or benzos,but my question is is there a way to take oxys and hydrocodones without addiction. they are truly wonderful meds i feel like im in heaven on them, just innocent relaxation i dont rly look for a high i just want that relaxed feeling it feels really cozy and warm and stress free. Im thinking of doing them for two weeks and taking one week breaks. I hear you can take tylenol 3s once you feel cravings or signs of addiction to wean off but idk rly i just want some kind of feed back. How can I use oxycodone and hydrocodone without addiction and method of using and taking breaks or anything will help. I absolutely love the stuff I know the dangers of addiction but please just answer the question, thanks :)

The Great One is being misused so badly...the birthday party sucked agree or not?

seriously the rock birthday bash was disaster....it was totally unnecessary....mya?and all those celebs wishing him was pointless...it would have been better if austin or hhh wished him..or a match with someone would have been electrifying....and the night after wm 27 was so bad...i thought he was gonna lay the smackdown on cena but?you know what happened....and im sure theyll make cena will win at wm 28...its pretty much you know like hogan vs rock wm 18....you know what im sayin....

How to Win my Ex-Girlfriend Heart Back?

You should take the 15 hour trip to see her. That in it of itself shows how much you care for her. Confess to her what you've told all of us, and see what happens. If she stands firm on her decision of the breakup, than perhaps you two aren't destined to be together. But you never know what will happen. Your initiative could reaffirm her love.

Guys do you ever beat off together with your guy friends?

My friend says his frat does this? They all get together and watch porn then try to spray each other?

My Friend Got Cheated On And Knocked Out! How do i help him?

Don't bring it up in front of him. You don't want him to feel any more insecure, do you? Take him out to have a good time, ball games, dinner, parties maybe.. Make him feel good about himself, maybe even take him to get some new clothes..? Be nice around him. I'm sorry to hear he got knocked out too, I hope he recovers soon :) Best of luck, -msar27

Do i have a right to proof that he's keeping clean?

I would not have bothered to talk to him. From what you said there is no chance he will return to a normal life. he is soo much used to his life style so he is not going to change. I would have left him by now if it was me. Have a think on my suggessions and take a good decision.

What Are the causes of Internet an tv addiction...?

Re they a way of cancelling out feelings? Is there connection between someone living in a fantasy world and having a tv/Internet adddiction?

What's your reaction to the celebration of Osama?

I'm American. I'm thankful this man will not be able to harm any more of our people or anyone for that matter. But celebrating his death? How can we spend time celebrating his death, when I prefer to see what they are doing to heighten security, to let us know what they think about the upcoming retaliations. Who is in command now? Why celebrate one man's death when he was not the only smartest pit bull in the pack. There's a lot to think about besides patting ourselves on the back for getting rid of a very evil man.

What do you think of this story line?

Yes this is really good! If u dont make this story and publish it im going to cry lol this is really good

How to beat a self-harming addiction?

Sort of makes me think things must have been pretty intense far back at times, probably many. Sometimes our parents, mothers try to do things they can't and end up with messed up children. The tensity of the life of the mother usually portrays one of extremities and at that probably made the life inside one of turmoil and strife if not worse. Of course we have no control over this as children trying to grow up with reality as it is, nobody ever wants to discuss these things openly so we are left with having to guess our way as to the whats and whys of our behavior. I can just imagine what it must be like for an infant that has survived an abortion attempt with a coathanger. That is why we make it legal.

Am I the only one starting to see more and more WM/ BW relationships?

Its common place in Cali. I see BW WM and latino men and BM WW and latina women. Overall most black men and women are with each other but I see a lot mixed race couples. I'm black and my girl is black.

How do you know if someone has a computer eating addiction?

I don't know... but someone very close to me REALLY likes computers. I find her like... licking them and grinding on them. Maybe she just loves computers with a passion... or she likes eating them. She's gone through a lot of computers, and I'm starting to get the idea she's cheating on her laptop.

How to Win my Ex-Girlfriend Heart Back?

its ok , i been there just let her go and if she love you she will come back to you. sometimes love works like that and the person relize that you love her alot. stay strong. dont go crying to her you want her back dont keep asking her what happen. just be there n let her go n if she is yours she would come back to you. n u keep doing you never put your head down.

PLEASE HELP!!! Is there a possibility he likes/liked me?

I'm in the same situation as you. Honestly, I think he likes you. Usually when I guy acts more serious with a girl, he likes her. I think he thinks you're a great, smart person and likes who you are. It seems to me that when he asked you all those questions he was interested in you and wanted to know more about who you were. You should definitely talk to him on Facebook!! There's nothing wrong with wanting to talk to him. Just be confident and true to yourself!! Hope this helped.

My Friend Has An Addiction To Cutting?

WOW... sounds like my story almost exactly, even the age. i had an abusive dad. well it all stopped and was fix when a friend of mine invited me to his youth night (had no idea i was a cutter) but it took months maybe and now i'm fully for God. i quit things i use to to and i guess it was bc i felt like after all of my life God care and loves me enough to speak to me i was blown away. it hard to explain but hope this all helps

Are letters of recommendation, for a sorority/frat, important at Penn State?

Letters of recommendation are important at just about every sorority I've ever heard of. Can you really blame them? Who wants a lifetime commitment with someone nobody knows anything about? Your letter of recommendation is your introduction, a reference by someone who knows you that you'd fit in with that group and be an asset to them. You owe it to yourself to get those letters!

Undertaker next wm oppoent?

I heard it will be triple h since he said it a couple weeks ago and I heard undertaker is resting neck injure maybe form that triple h tombstone piledriver lol anyway what will be his next oppoent possibly stone cold will come out retirement and give him the best damn *** whooping triple h with stakes even higher streak vs career chris jerico or sting I heard him and vince mchachnon were dicsuing someting about the next wm

Dancing at clubs/frat parties?

So I have this feeling that girls like it (especially girls that I'm not really interested in) when instead of the usual grinding sesh, I mix it up with some old school ballroom-like dancing to modern party music. It seems like they have a really fun time because its kind of funny to do. But do girls really like it when I dance with them like that?

I leave for Marine Corps bootcamp soon. What should I take with me to live in the base barracks as a WM?

Cleaning supplies, bedding, storage items, decoratives, how big are room spaces to keep your items, etc.?

Prescription meds addict?

i once a prescripition meds addict and now i think im developing that addiction back. i took 14 depression meds yesterday and i just took 5 a few mins ago. i haven't told my therapist about my addiction. am i developing my addiction back? im 18 yrs old

How important is Money/whips(cars) to college girls?

Let's say the guy is cute/good looking and 18(non jailbait)...drives a 2010 porsche cayman but is occasionally caught rolling around in his dad's ferrari 458 italia...if you're with him you seriously DONT have to worry about money for the rest of your life...he's not a snob but a smooth talker...downside is he smokes an 1/8 of weed a day but doesnt drink and "get down" with the frat boyz..lol

Could I have food addiction..?

i constantly think of food...all the time and always crave chocolate and all kinds of fast food. i hate my body with a passion, and i'll eat a ton of food each day then feel disgusting after and start crying alot. if i want to stop eating my meal, even if im full, i just cant. ill always attempt a diet plan and even if its just a simple one, it doesnt last more than a day. i always eat when im not hungry, just to satisfy the craving. i feel disgusted every time i overeat. my mom doesnt think i have food addiction, but i really think i do. i want to stop it but it's extremely hard. i couldnt eat completely healthy even if my life depended on it (which technically..it does) i'm a 14 year old girl

So I need some opinions on two wedding dresses?

wow they are both so gorgeous! i think if u want to go more simple and make ur body look slimmer i say 2. one is so gorgeous though. very detailed. good luck

Are theses 3 superstars the only ppl to ever hold the wwe title and whc on the same night?

Edge is the only one. Jericho won the WWF and WCW titles on the same night. The World Heavyweight Championship (WWF/WWE version) didn't exist until September 2, 2002, six months after WrestleMania X8.

How many people know the origin of Axe products?

I did not know this but when both my sons came home with letters from school letting parents know the most recent list of banned products and mentioning Axe by name, the stuff smells awful and the schools don't want the boys using it as it's giving people headaches, it turns out the product was first started in Europe for reasons too rude to mention and now they are running the Pathetic/Desperate ads trying to get the 14 year olds to run out and buy it therefore becoming popular with adult women who look suspiciously like hookers.It was specifically designed to cover up body odor as opposed to a personal hygiene product. Then I found out from one of my sons friends that if you open any Axe product in a certain drug store chain and the employees see you you are pretty much told to buy it. I always wondered why there were so many 'frat boy' commercials on for the stuff when the kids always said the stuff smelled terrible, Now we know............If you can't sell a product throw some sleazy broads in the commercials.

If The Rock defeats John Cena will he be the first man to beat 3 icons at wrestlemania ?

I don't know if he would be the first man to beat three icons at WrestleMania because I believe The Undertaker did before by defeating Triple H at WrestleMania 17 & WrestleMania 27, Ric Flair at WM18 and Shawn Michaels at WrestleMania XV & XVI.

Remember the WM where the bands sung the theme song for the super star? Was killswitch engage there? for punk?

If they had Killswitch there that would be awesome, id love to see a metal band perform. They will probably just get Justin Beiber instead.

How to i make my ex boyfriend regret dumping me?

I really liked this guy but he wouldn't ask me to be his girlfriend, he joined a frat, trust issues were flying everything. Long story short, he played with my heart so much, never asked me to be his girlfriend when i wasted all year with him trying, I did EVERYTHING for him. Needless to say, end of the year I said either take me seriously or we are ending it. He basically ended it. My heart was broken I felt awful, insecure. It was bad. I did everything for him. So currently I'm home for the summer. I'm wondering, when I go back to school how do I make him notice me? When I walk into that frat party how do i make him regret it? I have been working out, I got a new hair cut. I want to talk to other guys but I heard jealousy only goes so far. How do I talk to guys to not look like a whore and make him mad but make him crazy and completely regret dumping me? i know i shouldnt get back with him i just want him to regret it so i can say sorrryyy your loss! haha can someone help?

Internet addiction! need help! it starts out very subtle.?

I find myself coming on the computer alot more over the past month. This can't be a good thing. i used to do this before over two years ago but then quit for like two years partly because i was super busy. I find myself creeping into the same situation slowly. i want to break this addiction again. it starts out very subtle then increases.

Does he keep staring at me b/c I look at him? We're in college?

long story short: met a guy my freshman year who lived in my friend's dorm. He's from the same state as me and we know similar people. Anyway, after talking to him my friend told me he said I was a cool girl. I didn't think much of it ,he's the jock popular type and I'm the quiet nerd (well now that I'm a senior I'm much hotter lol) so maybe that's it, but I notice him staring at me and looking away like ALL THE TIME in class at work etc. Last night at a frat party he saw me and said hi and gave me a side hug. He was with other girls tho, so I didn't really talk to him, but he did keep staring at me. What's up with that? If he liked me, wouldn't he ask me out?

Im addicted to redbull..?

Im 15 years old.. 6'3. I used to be a very healthy kid.. playing sports etc and now alls i want is another red bull. I need atleast 2, 16 oz cans of it a day.. ive dranken 7 16 oz a day and would drink more if i had them.. my weight went from 165 to 140. I dont know what to do. If i dont drink it alls i am thinking about it "how can i get my next can" am i going to have to steal some to get by? ive stolen my parents credit card, money etc. i used to have a Monster addiction but i now only drink redbull. My room is full of empty cans. WTF DO I DO

Lost my girl, cause I gave too much of a fkcu?

Dated this girl, we started to slowly get closer, she would stay over knowing ahead of time that I wake up early to catch a bus. She would sometimes lay in bed and wait until the last minute to get up. this eventually got annoying and I let it affect my attitude with her sometimes. So we'd catch the bus after rushing but i would kind of be mad with her for some reason. and this would last all the way through when we had breakfast together at the dining hall. We didnt really argue ever and on the weekends i was care free so we had a better time then. She eventually broke it off with me cause she said we were arguing all the time and that, I kept getting weirder and weirder. Im assuming i changed from being my fun self to being the I care too much about the little things you keep doing. She was 19 college freshman and Im 22 college senior. When she originally ended our relationship she said things were getting too serious and that she needed to concentrate on school. (And it also didnt help that when i couldnt see her for a week cause she had pink eye we ran into each other on campus and she asked if i was inviting her over but i had a midterm to study for so the next day i asked her to come over and she said she needed to catch up on sleep. This was really shady to me. I was trying to text my friend I think im losing my girl but i accidentally sent it to her, and thats when she said i wasnt ready for a boy.) We texted a little after that I thought she would come back, so we could talk about what was wrong and move forward. She drunk texted me on a sun or mon night saying hey how are you? I found out she was drinking at a frat house. I didnt care when we were together but because she said she didnt want to be with me because of school but she had time to drink at a frat house kind of upset me so i said nice! Glad im not in the way of your studies anymore. her response: are you trying to be rude or does it come naturally (she was always witty like that) she also called me when i didnt respond to it. It was because i was at work. I called her later and she didnt answer cause she was sleep but she texted back asking what was up I said nothing important and that I missed her and she said she missed me to and that was the last normal conversation we had. 3-4wks later she hooked up with some 26yr old town local dining hall employee. She's a 19yr old college freshman, Im sure they were "friends" while she thought we were having problems (she was just taking me too seriously as far as our arguments go) I chilled and left it alone for a while I never contacted her about for at least a month until i saw on his page that they people where saying they where my schools newest love birds and that she loved him. i got pissed and impulsively called her. I stayed calm said a few things asked what was up with her and this dude and i just got angrier and angrier and i ended up yelling saying a bunch of irrational stuff. By the end of the conversation, she said i dont even want to be friends with you anymore and that this dude was perfect, and she kept saying goodbye goodbye. so i just hung up the phone and deleted her from my account. Long story but seems like besides her immaturity and me not knowing how to deal with her or having a relationship. I just gave too much of fkcu!

I hate myself. im boring, stupid, and ugly?

I think its the mixture of high school and hormones. That ruin people for life .because when I walk down the hall I feel like everyone is judgeing me.. and im pretty popular so I couldn't even imagine how the less popular kids would feel

Why haven't I had a hangover?

I'm a typical college frat kid. I drink a lot, and I've been drinking a lot more since its break, but its been about 2-3 years since I started drinking and I've yet to have a hangover. I've puked, blacked out, you name it all that good stuff but the next morning I just have terrible breath . Is it normal to not get hangovers even after blacking out and mixing all kids of drinks?

Do you think LeBron James will be involved somehow for next year's WrestleMania 28 ?

I think he could be something to similar like what Mike Tyson was as a Special Guest Referee during Shawn Michaels vs Stone Cold Match. I really doubt LeBron James could be a Special Guest Referee for The Rock vs John Cena Match, but it could make the case that he is a Villian. LeBron does have alot of strength, maybe he could be a wrestler just for a moment.

PLEASE HELP ME GET OUT I NEED TIPS?

I need help. I want divorce my husband for the following reasons: 1- He is pill head 2-He is finically stupid and lets his ex wife who has kid with take advantage of him 3- He is paranoid, mentally unstable ‘cause of the pills 4-He is control freak. I make about 90% of our income and I bought house cash with my money and my car cash with my money and have some money saved. He lives in another state ‘cause he is in the Army for the last 6month, he never lived with me in this house. I know if he finds out I’m filling for divorce he would want half of the house and half the cash. So I sold the house to my aunt and with the money bought home in Brazil, he could be my guest and try to get half of that lol. The cash I took it out and put all in our 5 year 509 college funding. So now I legally don’t owe the house nor do I have any money on any banks in the world. What is the law now? And are drug addiction Grand for divorce in Miami Florida.

Gay Guys: Are my buddies gay together?

I noticed something strange...they are awfully close. They're like brothers...and that's understandable, because they probably are in a bromance together. But...I saw something that kind of caught me off guard....You see, my buddies are the mexican, pretty-boy, frat-guy, loud types. You know, the ones that have fades and groom their moustaches and goatees much like the way mine is in my avatar, play sports, and have kids or chase the ladies? (Yes I'm very observant and analytical, but NOT because I'm gay or bi...that's just the way I am) Anyways, being as how this is the way they are, it caught my very off guard with what I'm about to say....I was in high school when I saw them in front of me greeting each other aggressively, like guys, and then.... <:-D .....walked away with each other STILL holding each other's hands, haha! XD I freaked, mainly because it was passing period and there was a lot of people in the area. They didn't hold each other's hand for a long time, but they did they DID hold each other's hands for a brief moment, haha. Now, my question for you gay guys is....are my buddies gay together? I am just curious really. It's not because I'm secretly gay or bi or something...it's just they're my friends, and I would just like to know if they're gay or bi without asking THEM cause I don't want to embarrass them.

Rey Mysterio vs Sin Cara WM 28, do you think this should be Rey's retirement match?

BQ: If the match happens do you think Rey should go out winning or pass the torch to Sin Cara by losing?

I wish my parents wouldn't smoke, advice?

Just remind them that you want them to be there in your (future) children's lives and to be able to see them grow up. And tears, add lots of tears...parents eat that up

I got drunk recently for the first time and now i never want to drink again. Is this normal?

if you like the drink itself, just not the aftermath, try and use portion control. find when you start getting a tiny bit woozy stop. try find the limit.

Recovered Drug Addicts Will You Answer Please?

He is an addict. & he cant control it & the fact that he is having to go to prison is most likely making it worse. He is scared & lost & in his mind drugs is what helps. & your right, you probly will never understand exactly what he thinks or feels. & thats ok. He should get help when he gets out of prison. Rehab would probably be the best thing for him but he has to WANT to get sober in order for it to happen. People recover because they have the strength & will to, because more then anything they want to or they learn thats whats best. Its a stressfull, scary process so just support him if you can. Good luck.

Wrestlemania 28 matches?

WOW that is pretty nice but in real life it is going to be Ezekiel Jackson and Mason Ryan vs Big Show and Kane for unified tag team champs

Do intelligence and career prospects matter at all to college girls?

No way your definetly not a dorky nerd, you sound like a kind,sweet + intelligent guy and any girl would be lucky to have you, you should relax and wait for this girl to find you because you sound amazing but just be yourself not any one else...

Military eligibility after a dui diversion program?

I am in Oregon and I am on a DUI diversion program, now, part of the program is a mandatory 90 days of drug/alcohol/addiction recovery counseling. What I am wondering is if I can still enlist in the Army. Because i know that because of the high enlistment rate right now that the Army can afford to be the quite selective.

Need help with sick addiction to popping zits?

Ok, so I have sort of an OCD thing alot of people have, where if there's anything different or dirty that just pops out, I need to get rid of it, I'm sort of a perfectionist, and cause of this, ever since I've started getting zits, I'd pop them, and I'd squeeze them afterwards even though I know I already popped it. It's getting really bad now, and I know it's horrible for my skin, but it's my worst habit. I have the urge to look for, and pop zits I have every time nobody is around, in bathrooms, in the shower, in the living room, outside, in school, and it's sick, and grosses me out. Please help me, I'm desperate, because I get alot of zits literally everywhere on my body. I'm not looking for a way to get rid of them, im looking for a way to break this habit. Thank you.

Attached to much to facebook and the friends in it and now how i leave addiction ? (10 points sure )?

Well you can try getting addicted to a habit that doesn't prevent you from studying. Like smoking pot always fun and always works for me. Alternatively you can just man up and not do it for couple of days you will forget all about it.

How to Win my Ex-Girlfriend Heart Back?

Unfortunately, if she said she looks at you like a best friend and not a boyfriend, things may stay that way. If she's 19 now, I assume you first got together when she was 17? At 17, not all girls really have a clear idea of what they want in a boyfriend. Personally, I had no physical attraction to my first two boyfriends- great friends, but no chemistry, and I didn't figure out until I was 18 that chemistry is absolutely vital. It may be that she just realized that there's no chemistry, and if that's the case, it isn't anyone's fault, least of all yours, but she wouldn't be likely to change her mind.

What are some 18+ club in new orleans?

Ok im 19 and all of my friends are 21+ and it really sucks not being able to go anywhere with them..Im not going to drink but to listin to music and have a good time with friends ..The only one i know and can get into is the frat house and there tired of going there with me...Are there any other clubs that let 18,19,20 year olds in in and around the new orleans/metairie area please please please

What WWE Superstar do you think is going to retire next year at WM?

Has to be, Taker can't compete anymore and he'll go to 20-0, say farewell, at WM30, He gets inducted in the HOF

Want Help Please Need To Be Out?

I need help. I want divorce my husband for the following reasons: 1- He is pill head 2-He is finically stupid and lets his ex wife who has kid with take advantage of him 3- He is paranoid, mentally unstable ‘cause of the pills 4-He is control freak. I make about 90% of our income and I bought house cash with my money and my car cash with my money and have some money saved. He lives in another state ‘cause he is in the Army for the last 6month, he never lived with me in this house. I know if he finds out I’m filling for divorce he would want half of the house and half the cash. So I sold the house to my aunt and with the money bought home in Brazil, he could be my guest and try to get half of that lol. The cash I took it out and put all in our 5 year 509 college funding. So now I legally don’t owe the house nor do I have any money on any banks in the world. What is the law now? And are drug addiction Grand for divorce in Miami Florida.

What do hot girls think of studious, hardworking guys?

Hot girls seem to be only into the bro/frat type guy, most of the time anyway. Guys who wear baseball caps, act tough, etc. Even though you might not like the intelligent/hardworking type for dating, what do you think of them in general?

Would you have liked to see the Undertaker vs Goldberg at any Wrestlemania?

I would like to see it. It would be the next dream match that you would want to see (besides against Sting or Andre the Giant). Goldberg has that devastating spear and the powerful jackhammer while Undertaker has the Tombstone Piledriver and the Chokeslam. Who knows? If that match "DID" happen, both superstars would pull off moves that we didn't know that they were capable of doing. I heard that Goldberg has some sort of chokeslam but I never seen him do it. Undertaker once did use a spear (against Edge) during a match at SummerSlam a few years ago. But since this is in WWE, Undertaker will win. The match might last almost 40 minutes (like Taker vs HBK part 1 did at WrestleMania 25).

Does anyone agree with me about this?

Everyone says Taker-HHH was the best match at WM 27, but I disagree. I think Rhodes-Mysterio was the best match of the night. A good majority of the moves done in Taker-HHH were signature or finishing moves, and the pace of the match got too slow near the end in my opinion. Rhodes-Mysterio featured good chain wrestling, and kept a good pace. I know pro wrestling isn't necessarily about pace, but I think it is still important. Overall, I think Rhodes-Mysterio was the best match of WM 27.

Pregnancy and drug addiction. Need an educated answer. Please help.?

I am 17 years old and approximately 10 weeks pregnant. I told my mom, but I have not been to the doctor yet. For about 3 years I have been addicted to roxy 30s. When I found out I was pregnant, the baby's health became a huge concern because of this. My mom is planning to schedule my appointment at Generations obgyn, but she does not know about my drug use. I have done plenty of research and have found that doctors will typically tell you to continue doing the drug until they can prescribe you something to get you off of it because the withdrawal can cause miscarriage. This doesn't seem quite right to me. Also, I am very worried that once I tell them about my problem they will try to take my baby away from me once it is born. I admit that I need help getting off of pills, and I know that I want to quit for me but even more for my baby so that he or she can have a healthy life. Please help with this. Should I chance miscarriage from withdrawal now and go to the doctor clean, or should I continue to do them until the doctor can prescribe me something? And even if I successfully get off of them with the help of my doctor during pregnancy, will they still take my baby away once it is born?

Why was both Cole vs Lawler & Miz vs Cena unable to live up to the huge hype at WM 27 in the 1st place?

cos cole and miz were in the matches! simple as that, both of them are useless retards who shouldn't be in the ring! cole should go back to how he was before the heel push and miz should leave the WWE and go do more reality tv that no one cares about!

What to expect if I become a social worker?

I was studying to be a psychologist but I didn't feel that would bring me into contact with the public quick enough. That is what I want to do, work with the public, with families that have life skills issues or drug and alcohol addictions. I want to advocate for families to stay together as long as the parents are willing to do the footwork. What parts of social work will I be able to have the most impact after I get my Masters? I really don't want to push food-stamp paperwork and lose my spark for humanity the way I have seen others go. Are their specific roles I can train for that will have me doing more than riding a desk and getting depressed and burned out?

My son only wants to drink red bull. he's only 2 years old and im concern?

My sister started giving him sips of red bull when he was a year old now he's two and wakes up demanding sometimes sneaking red bull to his room. I've been observing his behavior and so far he has about three-four redbulls a day. I want to trust that he will do the right thing and wouldnt need me to hide the red bulls but he's a sneaky sneak. I need to get him off of red bull but i dont think its healthy to cut red bull cold turkey. What could be a better solution to his "addiction"

Who would you rather hang out with: the frat boys or the geeks?

Geeks. I've been around frat boys, they still act like morons even when they get out of college. At least the geeks can help you with your computer.

Which Undertaker vs HHH clash was better?

WM 17. Don't get me wrong their WM 27 match was tremendous. They were just younger and healthier back then to put up an entertaining and brutal bout.

The truth of the Rugrats theory?

i think this is an accurate representation of where the show was started from, because i dont think that angelicas real life friend had sold her out to Nickelodian, i think she shared with the world what her friends imagination was, and i think she wanted to show that with imagination and determination you can do anything. and honsetly, thats what every episode is about, over coming fear and obstacles and having fun and it always involved imagination. the real life angelica found her way out, sadly she had to use drugs but thats how she used her imagination to make herself less miserable in a world where people MUST have been judging her left and right based soley on her mothers poor choices leading her to being a bipolar skitzofrenic child. i think this is entirely possible and some of it is a little crazy but really, why isnt it possible??

Why do white men date asians so much? is it because they are in the same socio economic status?

as opposed to females from other races. wm / af has an unusually high marriage rate compared with other interracial couples.

Anybody wanna help me with my marijuana project?

There is this great book i read, i BELIEVE its called marijuana myths and facts, and then also there was those great special on history channel bout weed, idk what its called but if you google "history channel marijuana special" im sure ull find it. And hey i feel ya, my parents caught me, no more door/tv/xbox/ipod/phone/privacy/facebook… my advice is sneak it when you can, and bullshit about thinking its bad, i did that at first a year ago, parents dont budge. If you make them think you want to quit, then theyll be hella chill and itll bloe over in a month

Fishing Supplies At Walmart?

Here's the deal, if you take a lure out of it's package, the alarm will not go off. The alarm sensor is on the package itself and not on the lure (s). I've witnessed people doing this before and yet to see one make it out of the store. I have also witnessed people rigging up some weird needle to a hose and pump in an attempt at sucking the fluids out of the Gulp! Packages.....they never made it out the door. All in all, Walmart knows people will always attempt to steal and sporting goods is usually high on the list of items stolen. That's why you see so many cameras and believe me when I tell ya, they are watching your every step. With that said, if ya just want to win a bet or whatever, ask the department manager to do a simple test to prove your friend wrong. Honesty is always the best policy.~good luck catchin'.

Do you think a WWE PPV (possibly SummerSlam) could work as a festival?!?

No, as WWE would make enough money from the PPV sales to do this. Vince would want to see some major profit that is guranteed and he gets that from what he does with Mania already so can't see him doing this as cool as it would be.

Why are people so jealous of others who belong to fraternities and sororities?

Is it because they couldn't make it through the selection process and get a bid? I just read a response on here that was extremely derogatory towards fraternity members calling us hot shot rapists frat boys. This is most disrespectful thing I have ever heard in my life. Do people say these negative things out of jealousy or ignorance?

Skinny girl margaritas a girl drink?

I gota start by saying i love Bethany and never tried Margaritas so when I saw she had her own brand of margarita i ran out to the store and filled my cart with them. anyway some frat guys were there and they were making fun of me and then the cashier asked me if this was for my gf/mom/sister at that i turned red and just walked out without buying anything i left the cart in the checkout i was so mad...im 21 so i dont know much about drinks....is this a girl drink??

Old Caffeine Addiction...?

My mom is going through the same thing. Her withdrawals were pretty bad at first. She was always yelling at me for no reason and she got mad pretty easily. And she was nervous, just like you are. She's a lot better now, so just wait it out. It won't take that long. :)

Torn between two guys - please help?

choose the guy who came along after because if you cared about the first one then you wouldnt be looking at others

I had my appendix out on Wednesday, when can I eat popcorn?

I have a crazy addiction to popcorn...probably what caused my appendicitis in the first place lol. I had an appendectomy on Wednesay, when can I eat popcorn again? The surgeon said to progress to a normal diet...never said anything to avoid though

US:So you want to follow us Europeans down the road to the permissive society. Could I just ask ARE YOU CRAZY?

Thousands of people killed in our oil wars don't count. California has more people in prison than Germany, England and France combined. We don't count that. There are American sections all over Europe, but European immigration is practically non-existent. Japanese, German, and Korean car makers flood into the southern US, to take advantage of the Third world conditions; no unions, no bargaining. A Fascists dream.

Do you think Cena's in ring ability is underrated rated right or overrated?

I am not a little kid. In my opinion I think John Cena is underrated at least by people who really don't know wrestling talent when they see it.

How do college studenrs who go out to bars every night/frat parties do well in class?

I work at a bar and out most every night also. It's really all about time management, actually learning the info for the class, having friends sign you into class, and getting help from people who had class in past. Just take hour to two out day for classes needing to study for and focus on them. Most classes though such as English, Maths up to Calculus and sciences already learned before in middle and high school so those are just retakes pretty much. If did well in highschool and remember stuff from than that helps.

Will urgent care prescribe xanax?

I have moderate anxiety problems and used to take xanax around 6 months ago but stopped to prevent addiction. In 2 days I have to fly a long airplane flight and have had some anxiety building up, and having some xanax would sure help. If I went to a urgent care with my father(im 17) would they be able to presrcibe it for me? Would I have to bring proof of my old xanax pill bottle? Thanks!!

Does watching pornography affect penis erection?

Okay, I watch pornography on a daily basis (If I have time) does this lessen the erections when I do the real thing? also, is watching it everyday considered addiction? though when the computer is out of reach for a week or something I don't really have a problem not watching it.

Fraternity question................?

my grandfather, and two of my uncles pledged omega psi phi, my mom and my aunt pledged delta sigma theta and my god mother pledged alpha kappa alpha, and some members of my extended family pledged other frats and sororities. so it run in the family, i was wondering if i could join a frat and transfer schools. like im going to kentucky state university and i was going to pledge omega psi phi there but i plan on transferring to the university of louisville my junior and graduate from there and test out playing d-1 football, but would i still be apart of that frat or will i have to pledge omega psi phi at uofl

What exactly is the purpose of a fraternity/sorority?

I'm leaving for college in a year and I feel like I should know this. My understanding is that a frat is just an alternative housing option where you can study and bro-out with the other dudes, and build your social network. Is that about right?

Do you think if science truly explored gaayyness it would find the cause?

A potential gay gene, called fucose mutarotase has been discovered. By altering the gene in mice, the mice become gay.

Looking for good bar in brandon fl?

Just relocated to Brandon Florida after graduating earlier this month. Im looking for a nice bar I can go into to meet some young ladies. Some place that's not too loud or crowed and drama free. As I mentioned as just finished school so im not looking for some wild frat party atmosphere.

How do i make my ex boyfriend regret dumping me?

wouldn't ask me to be his girlfriend, he joined a frat, trust issues were flying everything. Long story short, he played with my heart so much, never asked me to be his girlfriend when i wasted all year with him trying, I did EVERYTHING for him. Needless to say, end of the year I said either take me seriously or we are ending it. He basically ended it. My heart was broken I felt awful, insecure. It was bad. I did everything for him. So currently I'm home for the summer. I'm wondering, when I go back to school how do I make him notice me? When I walk into that frat party how do i make him regret it? I have been working out, I got a new hair cut. I want to talk to other guys but I heard jealousy only goes so far. How do I talk to guys to not look like a whore and make him mad but make him crazy and completely regret dumping me? SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!

On a scale of 1-10 ... How much do you expect Cena to get booed at the Money in the Bank PPV ?

Yea, but this was in a different country all together, Canada. Canadian fans are smarter, no offense. You ever notice that whenever the WWE holds a show outside of the US, Orton and Cena get boo'd?

I just took 10 depression meds?

i once had a addiction and i think im developing that addiction again. what should i do? should i call my therapist right now? im 18 yrs old.

Lets play a music game...!! ?

First to answer correctly gets Best Answer. I'm thinking of something that all of the following bands had in common at one stage or another.. Tell me what you think it is.. Red Hot Chili Peppers, Nine Inch Nails and Jane's Addiction.

Is my friend using me or am I just being overthinking this?

Hey everybody. Before I start I just want to say sorry for the lengthy entry, but here goes. So my friend and I have known each other for about 2 years now and I thought we were really close. We met each other in college, but I was a year ahead of her and I graduated before she did. When I left, we still stayed in contact with each other and talked almost every single day for up to a few hours at a time. Well, during her last semester, she decided to pledge for a coed fraternity and she said that she didn't have time to talk to me anymore because she was going to be so busy pledging. So I said ok because I knew she really wanted to do this and I was hoping she would still have at least some time for me. At this point, I don't know if she really was super busy with her frat brothers and sisters or if she just didn't really want to talk to me that much anymore. All I know is that she stopped returning my calls and took like days to answer my text messages. To her credit though, she did manage to give me a call every 2 or 3 weeks where we'd talk for like 1/2 hour. Anyways I told myself it must just be because she's really busy. Well after a few months, she found out she didn't get in and I thought well maybe now things will go back to normal and we get to talk every day again, but it didn't. She kept doing the same thing of not returning my calls or texts, and her bi weekly calls to me stopped all together. Anyways, it's getting closer now to the point where she is going to move to my area, and she has started trying to talk to me again on a more frequent basis after months of barely speaking. I'm thinking that the only reason she's doing this is because she has no one else to talk to and I feel like I'm her consolation prize or something. I’m pretty sure I already know the answer to this, but I’m really hoping that I’m just being paranoid. So does anyone else think she just tossed me aside when she found something better and is trying to pick me back up again now that it's going to be gone?

What to do about drugs? Serious answers only please.?

If she's your friend, just talk to her. If it looks like she's overusing, there may be a reason for it. Quite frankly, if you only smoked twice and haven't since then, don't be to afraid of your parents finding out: if she tells your parents, she'll only be admitting what she did. And quite frankly, I find it unlikely that her parents haven't noticed she's smoking, unless they aren't very involved with her (which might be part of the problem).

Is it just me who doesn't give a sh*t about Cena vs Rock at WM 28?

Seriously! I would rather see R-Truth main event Wrestlemania! Is it just me who doesn't care about Cena vs Rock at Wrestlemania 28?

Why are Oakley sunglasses considered not frat?

Why are oakley brand sunglasses not frat? I don't like the way costas look and I don't want to spend $200 on a pair of ugly sunglasses. I just don't understand why oakleys are considered GDI

Asking again: how do i get rid of a forum addiction?

I know how they can be addictive really, the mere fact that your reason is valid will make you not want to go to that forum again. And without matured people existing there so what is there a need to keep going back to that forum..this is just a big reason...so, get out before you get poisoned...

As an Asian-looking son of a White dad and Asian mom should I be angry at them for emasculating all Asian men?

at first i thought it was only black/white mixed people who were crazy now i think its all biracials who have issues

My boyfriend makes me feel inferior?

I've been dating him for 6 years on and off. we love each other but lately I've come to terms with the fact that its just not working out. I'd appreciate feedback as far as my decision goes. I have spent six years trying with him and am now planning on leaving him. We generally fight about everything, he seems to have a minor drinking problem and has become violent once with me. he apologized and felt shameful of his actions but the next night he sat on the phone and told me I needed to be "reborn" he also says things like " you think your better than me?" when hes angry. He also told informed me when he was drunk that he believed that I was younger then him mentality wise. He says things like "your just a girl" in the negative way. He has also said Im just a bag of emotions and things of this nature. I have met some other ladies I think he would really like I find that incredibly sad that I don't feel like I can knock his socks of or make him love me the way I want to be loved. He does try to reassure me that hes in love with me and I believe it but I believe the love I have for him is unselfish. I feel like i would let him go if I needed to so he could be happy but through all of his drug addiction he kept me around and hid his problems from me so he could have his cake and eat it too. I now realize you teach people how to treat you and I was weakened by love unfortunately. I just don't want to feel like Im missing out on something and he always tells me I will be if we break up. He talks big about his future even though he is lacking now in the present. he works a minimum wage job and spends most of his time sleeping if not at work or planning something with me. I just feel inferior to him because he has told me he doesn't like the way I communicate, he said I try too hard to sound smart which puts me in an awkward position because now I feel like I have to watch what I say so he doesn't think im trying to sound smart? its all very confusing and irritating. He generally bullies me when Im not doing what he wants or hes extremely angry with me. we have a very hard time understanding each other and communicating. I feel like we both bring out the worst in each other, I don't know if its anything that can be fixed and clearly we have been trying for so long is it worth continuing? I have some serious problems with the way he treats me and the way he treats our relationship and himself. He has abused drugs in the past, he has a past of not being very honest and he hasn't gained any brown points from my family. He wants to move in together soon and talks about how great it would be but we have never even gone on a trip together without our families present. He has little ambition and grew up getting everything he wanted, I have stayed with him because I am patient and understanding which are qualities most people don't have but is he worth anymore time or am I just kidding myself believing we could have a strong solid future together. I cant waste anymore time my patience is wearing thin so please let me know what you think, thank you!

What was the best Undertaker Streak Celebration?

Most defiantly one of the HBK matches. Most perforabley the first match. It showed that both men gave it what they got, they both showed their respect for each other, and both showed great emotion for the match.

Starting a text with a guy?

I like this guy and we talk at school sometimes. The thing is that he doesn't have my number but I have his. Idk if I would want to ask for it. But I've texted him who is this cause at frat I didn't know it was his number than a friend told me. He never respond. So I don't no if I should text him again but I want to so wat should I say!??? XD thank u all!!!

I genuinely need help.. please friends..?

can you take both to a counselor? If not you sister and you go and find the best in a professional way. meet and talk would be the best. you get more coming out from you.

What is a crowd like at a Death Cab For Cutie Concert?

Going on June 27 in Columbus. Part of me thinks there are going to be a lot of females or a lot of frat boys. I'm sure hipsters are the norm to.

HELP PLEASE Addicted to picking at my arms?

Okay, so for pretty much as long as I can remember, I've had these bumps on my arms, shoulders, and some on my face. When I was in like the 7th grade, I picked at these bumps a couple times because it was fun to watch the white things come out, and I also felt that feeling you get when you pop a pimple, like oh thank god that one is gone. It started getting irritated so I stopped. During my first year of high school, after like the 4th person asked me why I had goose bumps on my arms when I wasn't cold, I got embarrassed and started picking at them again. It's become somewhat of an addiction and every time I see the bumps I literally can't help myself, like I HAVE to pick it, and sometimes I'll go to my bathroom to do one thing, and end up picking at my arms for like 15 minutes. Then, my arms get all red, and it looks like cuts, some bleed, and my mom asks why I do it. I don't know. I cry and cry because I don't want to look like this and I don't want these bumps. I really don't mind them so much, I just want to stop. How do I go back?

Why doesnt anyone care about me? is there something wrong with me?

you've gota start taking care of yourself first! People will always be people no matter how good you treat them and thats something you cant change. But as for you, your stronger than you think.

Beth Phoenix vs Kharma at WM 28?

I think that would be a good match. Beth would be the only one that will give Kharma any type of competition. i think to be honest it should be her vs the undertaker but in a way i know taker would loose because she is a big girl and she might smash him. I am just wanting to see someone new go against him why not kharma.

My dad was a drug addict and overdosed and died 2 years ago.?

i probably need therapy, but when i was 5 my parents were divorced because my dads drug problem he refused to kick& my mom didnt want me around it. so i grew up never being around my dad although i was a daddies girl b4 they were divorced.when i turned 19 i ended up moving in with him although his drug problem had only gotten worse. when i was 21 he overdosed and died and to top it off he died the day after i told him i was pregnant. my question is my whole life ive felt like i wasnt good enough for my dad to quit the drugs and choose to be the loving father that i need and now i have no a problem with my self esteem and constantly feeling like i need love from a man. this is the first time ive been single in 4 years and now i can feel all the pain that ive been holding in for my entire life coming out. how can i overcome this love addiction and feeling like i constantly need a man. :/

Question About Fishing Stuff At WM?

toss one in a persons cart thats leaving and see :)....if it dont have that maget thing on it it wont go off..... I bought a tackle box there 5 years ago and i filled it up with lures,hooks,weights everything.... the guy scaned the box and didnt open it... i kept my mouth shut and walked out ..

How to Win my Ex-Girlfriend Heart Back?

I would go visit her...yes you said it was 15 hours away but take a whole weekend off if you can...it would mean alot to her if you put in the effort to show how much she means to you...a cute surprise visit that took 15 hours is kinda romantic. Also be friends with her but show her how you can be more then a best friend. Treat her like a princess if you don't already. And on the nights she is gone maybe if you have it skype her or call her on the phone since texting takes away from the true feelings and reminder her every now and then that you love her GOOD LUCK!!

Why not help me get my life back. i should have the right to be pain free!?

i have severe fybro with a painful nerve disorder on top of that. the pain is unbareable an all over in my feet, legs, sides, and face. at times it feels like im on fire. ive never had problems with addiction and have taken codiene in the past and lived a fairly normal life. i moved and the doctors here insist that im nuts and a drug addict. how do you find good doctors who are compassionate. do they even exist? im now crippled with pain and lay in the bed in agony all day. its been months and my will to live is getting week. i need help. i heard doctors in florida were more compassionate because they deal with elderly people and i just found out that i possibly have thyroid cancer. my doctor without examining me says " ohhh you dont have cancer" i told her i was just repeating what the emergency room doc said. they found them when they did xrays because i fell off the porch and dislocated my hip and was knocked out.

Heartbroken re decision made?

My 18 year old son has had mental health issues for many years namely due to horriffic sexual abuse he suffered at the hands of his bioligical father & grandfather. Since he chose to file charges with the police, his biological father committed suicide, his grandfather was called to trial but the prosecutors felt there was not enough 'evidence' to take it to trial & in the publics best interest to withdraw all charges from the grandfather so he got off scott free. I have had my son in multiple private hospitals seeking the best of psychiatric care for the last two years since he left school. He is addicted to drugs, pain medication, marijuana, you name it. He has attempted suicide a multitude of times & last night was the final straw in that he terrified my 3 year old son (his step brother), myself & his step father by indicating we were at harm & to lock ourselves in our bedroom throughout the night, that he cut himself up with a knife across his arms & legs & my fiance had to wrestle a large carving knife from him. We had police come to the house, he had a seizure in front of them & the ambulance arrived to take him to hospital but he walked out of there today as our mental health system in Western Australia is pathetic, they release mental health patients at the drop of a hat. We have told him many times previously that we cannot keep putting up with him living under our roof with his addictions that he doesn't seem to want to address & he is scaring his little 3 year old brother so he has to move out. I am heartbroken telling my own child he is not welcome in our home. He told me today we don't care about him, we don't love him, we only love his little brother, he is our only son & he is going to kill himself & we will have his blood on our hands. I have for years tried so many hospitals, psychs, taken so much time off work jeopardising my job trying to help him, I recently secured him a job & we thought things were going well but he took days off on drug induced illness. I can't help but feel guilty about our decision to have him look for crisis accommodation. I have tried to intervene & help him do this today but he told me to stay out of his life. I feel like I'm a terrible mother & have let my own flesh & blood down.

I feel like I am wasting my youth.?

I am a rising junior in college who goes to a small private school. I am a communications major and I am also on the swim team. I do well in school and I work as a research assistant to one of my professors. I still have strong ties to my home town as I am close with my family, especially my younger sister. I have two really good friends from high school who are also in college, but they go to big universities in the city. They go out to bars with their fake id's and go to frat parties. They are both studying abroad; one of them is even interning abroad. They have no ties to our hometown and it seems like they go back to their apartments at school every chance they get. I feel like they are both such free spirits, and I'm just not. I would love to study abroad, but swimming has always been really important to me and I've made a commitment to my team; I have also committed myself to helping my professor. I don't dread coming home for breaks like they do, I actually enjoy it. I'm pretty okay with my life, but then I look at all the cool things my friends are doing and it makes my life look so boring. My one friend says she just works hard during the year so she can travel and have fun in the summer. I would love to say the same, but I have to work hard all year round because I need to work at my job in the summer to pay for my education. It's not that I don't take advantage of opportunities, they just don't present themselves to me that often. I try to tell myself that all my hard work will pay off and that I can get a good job that allows me to travel and what not, but none of that is guaranteed. Am I wasting my youth being responsible and doing "the right thing"? Should I take some time to travel the world and be crazy? I need some feedback from people other than my family.

Did I teach this kid a horrible life lesson?

lol, this is a hard one. they r so impressionable at this age, but being 5 the child should know that its a game like the video game, and know that its wrong to hit people in everyday life, so i wouldnt worry too much honestly. if the parents are doing their job you shouldnt have anything to feel bad about, u were merely relating game to game and teaching the kid.

How to Win my Ex-Girlfriend Heart Back?

Unfortunately, if she said she looks at you like a best friend and not a boyfriend, things may stay that way. If she's 19 now, I assume you first got together when she was 17? At 17, not all girls really have a clear idea of what they want in a boyfriend. Personally, I had no physical attraction to my first two boyfriends- great friends, but no chemistry, and I didn't figure out until I was 18 that chemistry is absolutely vital. It may be that she just realized that there's no chemistry, and if that's the case, it isn't anyone's fault, least of all yours, but she wouldn't be likely to change her mind.

How Much Value do You Put on the Love of Jesus Christ .. On A Scale from 0--10 ?? Be As Honest As You Can ..?

10 ..I value Jesus above all. I have failed the Lord too, we all have. But through him we get stronger and stronger.

He only wants me when he can't have me?

this is so weird he is like joking right??? he either likes you so much he doesn't want to be like he was with other girls or he doesn't like you and hes being funny either way you have to talk to him about it

Which frat should i join?

I'm starting college in two months and have been asked to pledge to several frats, kappa sigma, delta chi, and delta tau delta. I wanna join a frat that likes to have a good time, but I also want one that is a close knit brotherhood. One where you roll deep (travel in a large group) everywhere you go. So out of those three, which one sounds right for me

Does it sound as if he was going to hit me?

My best friend has been in abusive relationship after abusive relationship. It ALWAYS starts as you described. Buy her nice things to make her feel guilty and like she owes him. Beg for what he wants, guilt trip her if begging doesn't work, and swing if the guilt trip doesn't work. incase that still doesn't work, pretend it's all cuz he was drunk and go on to do it again, and again. Get away from him while you can. Cuz it doesn't take long for him to convince you he does it all just out of love. (it sounds crazy, but somehow they do it to the strongest of women.) Let the police know just incase. If the breakup doesn't go well, they already have it on record. let as many of your closest friends and family know, and try to have somebody (preferably somebody that can hold their own) present when you end it. Best of luck, and I hope it all goes well.

Why are most bi-racial people from BM/WW relationships?

this is such bs i didn't even read the whole thing, also there are wayyy more other combos than just black and white!

Why do I love masturbating so much?

Seriously, I need help. I lost my job, my house, my family, and my wife because of my addiction. Please help me.

Do sororities make frat pledges dress up?

I heard stories of on the night the pledges go to each others sister greek, the sorority girls have the frat pledges wear girl clothes. is this for every frat/sorority or just a few?

Would it be slutty to wear a bikini top and shorts to a Cabo themed party?

I'm in college and my friends are having one last party at their frat before summer. It's Cabo themed, and the invite says to wear something you would wear if you were going somewhere tropical. Would it be slutty to wear a bikini top and shorts, or does that just go along with the theme?

POLL: Are You here just because it's another ADDICTION or just for FUN?

I'm still here because of some of the people I would miss. If they were no longer here, I wouldn't be either.

Yahoo addiction??????

I cant help my self, and when im finished, I always get the " you have reached your limit, come back tomorrow " and i always come back.... how do i kick this addiction? rehab?

With WWE's inability to obtain the right to Ain't No Grave, will Undertaker use Rest In Peace again?

I think they didnt put it on the dvd because they would have had to pay royalties for it but if they used it on tv then i think they are allowed to use it, just not sell dvds with it on it. Or maybe they are allowed and dont want to pay the royalties like how they didnt want to pay royalties to metalica for triple h's entrance on the mania dvd. So i think they may keep his song on tv as johhny cash but change it for dvds.

Face Getting Skinny But Not Losing Weight?

my face has gotten REALLY skinny in the past 2 years. my eyes and cheeks are hollowing out. but im not losing any weight? yes ive smoked alot of weed, done some shrooms, and some pills. but it started before my drug addictions? im 19 years of age, im just wondering if it is normal for your face to change like this?

What if I can`t let go?

What if one tries to let go of something...for example forget someone or give up an addiction etc...and they just can`t manage, after several years. What`s next?

Is this a good WWE Championship timeline?

You do realise that there are still 10 WWE PPV's before Wrestlemania XXVIII and obviously every one will have a match for the WWE Championship and on this list only 3 are stated as being at a PPV like what about Summerslam?What about Survivor Series?

Is it wrong to add a stranger on Facebook?

u should(must!)add him.Acc. to u he sounds pretty good and well if u both r in same place then why strangers?

Is there a possibility he likes/liked me?

yep i feel he defo likes you i would say u like him as a friend and get to know him a better better than take ot from there

Cerwin Vega, still just for frat parties?

A lot depends on how particular you are and what your comparing them to...and what type of music I mean if your comparing them to say a nice set of PBS or Aperion speakers they are going to fall short while with Sony or BIC they should be quite competitive.....

What cruise line should I choose? Are any not gay-friendly?

I'm looking to book a cruise in August--we're a gay couple, both 24 years old, live in Chelsea, NYC, young professional types/in grad school. We want a cruise line where we won't be surrounded by either baby strollers or a geriatric crowd. We like to drink and have a good time, but we don't want to be in a crowd that feels like a frat party either. I've taken a few cruises before, all on Royal Caribbean, with my family. I've had great experiences, but I also get the impression that Royal Caribbean is very family-oriented--that's great, it just may not be for us. I would really appreciate any suggestions that anyone has. Thanks!

PLEASE HELP: I'm crying!! I have a really bad internet addiction - it causes lower grades & family problems?!?

Just have your Mom or Dad check up on you every 15 to 20 minutes and if you aren't studying have them take it away or else stay with you while you study. This isn't something you'll be able to deal with without help so talk to your parents.

What are some things adults can do on a 3 day weekend?

I'm coordinating a 3 day weekend for my frat bros and our wives in July. The first night when everybody gets here we're going to have a cookout here at my house, but that's all I can think of to do. I live in L.A. and the only other thing I can think of that everybody might like is going to the beach. Our ages range from about 25-33. Any ideas?

Any advice will help?

so there's this guy.... He's in a frat more like Kappa and I like him. I don't think he feels the same and idk if I can just be his friend. We have hung out and kissed but we don't text all the time. When we do text he takes forever to text back. I'm thinking I should move forward but I want opinions of what y'all think? I know he will text me and I'm thinking maybe I should just not text back... Any advice will help!!

Is my addiction to food unhealthy?

I constantly think about food. I just want to eat all the time and everything sounds delicious. If I pass up a meal I feel guilty about it later and obsess over it. I'm not disgusted with myself nor do I purge. Im just wondering if it's unhealthy for me to eat too much. I only weigh 95 lbs, and as much as I eat I don't gain 1 lb. If anything I will lose a pound or 2. I don't get it. Do I have an eating disorder? Or do I just love food?

How could i help my friend stop his addiction?

i have this friend and he has this terrible addiction he wants to get rid of but he dosent know i know i want to tip in some advice on how to stop what he is doing! what is some advice? how would he stop his horrible addiction? ps. its not drugs or cutting or any thing along those line. pss. its not illigual

Kane vs Undertaker WM 28 and Kane returns masked or like the undertaker himself?

Remember when Kane first came out he looked like a undertaker double. could he not only end the streak but take his place?

What's the big deal with hulk hogan?

Hogan sucks.Hogan has always sucked & always will.His stupid leg drop has always sucked.He never helped his coworkers get over.He ruins every storyline.He cuts lousy promos.He demands & gets control of everything & then proceeds to run it into the ground.I see Hogan,I change the channel.

Jokes about frat boys?

im kind of dating a frat boy, and hes always telling me jokes about dumb blondes, so i want to say some about frat boys, know any? thanks (:

Who Deserves to Still Win the 2012 Royal Rumble? Who would You have Win the 2012 Rumble?

With John Cena declaring that him vs The Rock will be for the WWE Championship, it essentially cements that the Royal Rumble winner in 2012 will most likely challenge for the World Heavyweight Championship from SmackDown. So with that being said, I could see the WWE having Chris Jericho return and win the 2012 Royal Rumble to renew his old feud with Randy Orton before he was Punted out of action. A Jericho Rumble win would make some sense, after all he's literally done and won everything in the WWE except the Royal Rumble match.

Guys - would you have one night stand with a virgin?

I wish I could say it would be a turn on, but honestly the first time for a female is always painful to some degree and things get messy, and she doesn't know what to do and how to react, so no it's not something I care for at all.

I had a addiction to prescription meds?

i finally got over this addiction but im having thoughts to become a addict again. should i tell my therapist? what should i do? i feel like overdosing right now. im 18 yrs old.

Shopping addiction please help?

im 19 & have a shopping addiction. my boyfriend is extremely rich. i go to the mall everyday. i frequently shop at victorias secret DEBS and hollister. these works see me in there for days in a row now spending so much money at their stores. is there any way they can ban me from the stores if im spending so much money? does it look weird seeing the same person shopping in your store everday? HELP WHAT DO THEY THINK OF ME!

Why are oakley sunglasses considered not frat?

Why are oakley brand sunglasses not frat? I don't like the way costas look and I don't want to spend $200 on a pair of ugly sunglasses. I just don't understand why oakleys are considered GDI

Sony WM F41 plays tapes slow?

I recently purchased a vintage sony 1986 wm 431 and the sound is fine but it plays tapes slowly and some tapes won't play at all. Any ideas?

I had my first sexual experience with a girl at age 7, could this have started problems?

The babysitter I stayed with had a neice. She dragged me into this game called "privacy parts." Basically, every afternoon, the babysitter made us nap in the same bed. The girl and I then felt each others boobs touch each others genitals, It was the greatest rush of my live. Problem was, that my sister hid in the closet while we "played" Then at home she became apart of it. We didn't know any better. Could this have contributed to sexual problems in the past, like porn addiction or webcam sex? I started masturbating almost immediately after "privacy parts."

I've heard of people getting high off of lyrica?

yea...idk if this is true or not, most just sound like posers to me, but ive heard you can get high off of lyrica, and for medical reasons, my bro has to take it. wanna keep a watch out for signs of addiction? you sont think its getting him high, right?

Why do white men date asians so much? is it because they are in the same socio economic status?

as opposed to females from other races. wm / af has an unusually high marriage rate compared with other interracial couples.

What do you think of my situation? does this make me a whore?

Unfortunately, you had sex in a blackout. it doesn't make you a whore, it makes you a normal college gal. Lesson learned, hopefully you didn't get a disease, get tested in a few months since it may take some time to show up.

Should Drug Dealers Responsible For Drug Related Deaths Be Charged With Murder?

These people are parasites who feed off of the addictions of others and use those addictions to enrich themselves. That said should drug dealers who are responsible for drug related deaths be charged with murder being as how they supplied the substance that ultimately lead to an accidental overdose?

What neighborhood's are a good choice to rent in for gay men in their 30's that's reasonably priced in Boston?

Penny is right your price wouldn't make it in the South End, but I would look into Jamaica Plain. Eclectic mix, diverse neighborhood with public transportation.

If you relapse back into an addiction, is it harder to get back out?

This is a pivotal time for you. By posting this you show that you don't want to go back to that. Take this as an opportunity to learn what lead to your relapse and how you could have handheld it better. You probably could benefit from counseling to help you get through this rough part.

Dancing at clubs/frat parties?

So I have this feeling that girls like it (especially girls that I'm not really interested in) when instead of the usual grinding sesh, I mix it up with some old school ballroom-like dancing to modern party music. It seems like they have a really fun time because its kind of funny to do. But do girls really like it when I dance with them like that?

I love oxycodone, but is it safe?

Im a male, 19, Ive been using oxycodone for about 6 months now. I get 5mg oxycodone apap 120 count from an online vendor, i usually use oxy whenever i want that amazing relaxed feeling. i use once a day some times only 4 times a week. when i dose i use 15mg because it feels amazing the euphoria is just amazing. I am fully aware that Im sortof an addict but, my question is, is long term use dangerous? I plan on quitting some time in the near future but is use of oxycodone like this, dangerous? or its just dangerous because of the addiction factor.

Do you wear hollister, a&f, aero, etc., and why or why not?

i dont see why everyone tries to look like preppy robots by wearing practically the same clothes. they have some nice designs but everyone wears the same thing & almost all look like either sluts or frat-boy-wannabes/douches in em. i mean seriously, learn some individuality or something. ugh.

How do I make my ex boyfriend regret he ever dumped me?

So I was with this guy in September of 2010. We met at Penn State my freshman year (this past year). Everything was great but we started getting more serious and he wouldn't ask me to be his girlfriend, he joined a frat, trust issues were flying everything. Long story short, he played with my heart so much, never asked me to be his girlfriend when i wasted all year with him trying, I did EVERYTHING for him. Needless to say, end of the year I said either take me seriously or we are ending it. He basically ended it. My heart was broken I felt awful, insecure. It was bad. I did everything for him. So currently I'm home for the summer. I'm wondering, when I go back to school how do I make him notice me? When I walk into that frat party how do i make him regret it? I have been working out, I got a new hair cut. I want to talk to other guys but I heard jealousy only goes so far. How do I talk to guys to not look like a whore and make him mad but make him crazy and completely regret dumping me? SOMEONE HELP PLEASE! :)

Possible that I have syphilis?

This is a question for a doctor. He can not tell your parents any results. Go get checked today! if you don't want to see your family doctor, get out the yellow pages and find a county health clinic. Go in, tell them you have no money but want to know if you can be tested. Do not hesitate any longer on this it could be a serious problem.

Rush Week at Penn State?

I want to join a frat when i get to penn state and im confused by what rush week is exactly. What do you have to do and what do the frats do at penn state for rush week? and what are the odds that you wont get bids from any frat if you rush to like 3 of them or more?

WWE Poll: Out of these 5 matches which one's your favorite?

Shawn Michaels vs. Kurt Angle at Wrestlemania 21 in 2005 is my favorite. Not only is it my favorite out of this list, but it is my favorite of all time. This match had everything: suspense, excitement, anticipation, and above all else, WRESTLING.

What are some things adults can do on a 3 day weekend?

I'm coordinating a 3 day weekend for my frat bros and our wives in July. The first night when everybody gets here we're going to have a cookout here at my house, but that's all I can think of to do. I live in L.A. and the only other thing I can think of that everybody might like is going to the beach. It will be about 15 of us, and our ages range from about 25-33. Any ideas?

How important is money/cars to college girls?

Let's say the guy is cute/good looking and 18(non jailbait)...drives a 2010 porsche cayman but is occasionally caught rolling around in his dad's ferrari 458 italia...if you're with him you seriously DONT have to worry about money for the rest of your life...he's not a snob but a smooth talker...downside is he smokes an 1/8 of weed a day but doesnt drink and "get down" with the frat boyz..lol

This girl is ruining my life....what should i do?

hey so I'm a freshman in college and in a fraternity. Anyways I met this girl who is in a sorority and lives in my building and i have been madly in love with her ever since the first day i saw her six months ago. Needless to say she is all I think about. She keeps me awake at night and is the first thing I think about when I wake up. I go sick parties/mixers every weekend because I'm in the best frat on my campus, but I don't even talk to other girls cuz she is the only girl I like. I hooked up with her a few times but that's it. Anyways I was supposed to take her to our formal (a weekend in wildwood NJ where we share a hotel room with our date). So i was really excited to like make a move on her finally after months of waiting for a chance. A week before the formal she told me she is back together with her boyfriend who goes to another school and can't go. I have been a wreck ever since. I don't know what to do I'm really depressed about it and don't know what to do. The formal is friday and I don't think im gunna go. What should i do......

What are some signs of religious addiction in need of professional treatment?

The possible patient centers his or her life around religion.He or she spends most of her time worshiping,and his or her room is filled with religious stuff.He or she ignores his relatives,and seems to think of nothing but his or her religion.He or she relies on faith to save him or her when ill or hurt(people have died because of this stupidity) and not medicine or technology.

My Cheating Ex is An Addict and wants me back, please help guys and ladies!!!?

Addicts can change just like anyone else BUT they must want to. Without the drive of wanting to they will always fail. It doesn't seem to me that she wants to change. I have found once a cheater always a cheaters. Your still in love with her. That is a very deep emotion . You been there for her for six years you can't lose that feeling just like that. She isn't ready for any relationship. Her drugs is it for her. Til she is ready to get help she will always be high. If that is the kind of life you want then take her back. But keep in mind her drugs come FIRST! If she loves you as much as you do her she would want to get help but like I said keep in mind ONLY when she is ready will help really help her til then you have to make up your mind what kind of life do you want? As your not helping her doing what your doing...your enabling her. Good-Luck!! I wish you all the best!

Is it ok for me to be a little upset?Or a little annoyed?

I can understand your frustration, since he changed his mind on you for his birthday plans. I would let it slide though...it's his day, so he should get to do what he wants. And you shouldn't take it personally...it sounds like he does love you very much, but he can see you everyday, right? (That's probably how he looks at it.) His friends and his dad probably talked him into having a "guys night" and well, he's going along with it. Just let it go..men tend to have a harder time saying no to their buddies, and he's really hoping that you'll understand. It really doesn't mean that he doesn't want to be with you...he probably just couldn't say no to his friends. As for the frat dudes...yeah I don't blame you on that! There's no way I would spend a vacation staying in a noisy, filthy, loud frat house with all kinds of strange girls coming and going. He was probably just testing the waters by asking you...but I'm sure he would rather stay in a hotel also. Maybe he just thought he'd throw it out there because it would save money. Don't get mad at him though...unless he votes to stay at the frat house!!

Will my background check disclose this information?

Top Cat is correct, all background checks are not created equal. What your background check will disclose really depends on how thorough your employer wants to be, and of course how much money they're willing to spend. It costs an employer a lot more for a comprehensive, detailed background check then it does if they just want to make sure that you haven't robbed any banks lately. I will tell you that at my employer, your arrest wouldn't even show up on the report. Even if it did, the only details would be the date of the arrest, the date of the trial, and the charges. Details of the sentencing aren't included in the report.

Will Rock vs Cena at WM 28 next year outdraw Hogan vs Andre at WM 3?

I think it will but chances are Cena will still be WWE Champion and this will end up being the biggest Main Event in WWE.

By watching the commercial for WM 27 DVD do-sent it seem like WM 27 should of been Better?

Yeah, but you know what's gonna be better, The Rock kicking John Cena's little @$$ at WrestleMania, IF YA SMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLL!

Is Pepperdine University social nightlife nonexistant?

i am debating to go to pepperdine. i am from NJ and could go there for free except room and board. i love everything about it. but is the social scene really that bad? i love to party and drink. even if i joined a frat would it be hard to find a party? thanks.

Matches I would like to see choose who wins Part IV? Rate Them?

Oh god those are some awfull matches you book matches worst then ruso and why the Fu*k does crime cyti have to be all black wrestlers ??????

Is this considered rape?

it's nothing short of rape and you should leave him, a realationship based on sex can't survive, plus he sound like a bellend

If WWE do Taker/HHH III @ WM 28, will it reach the level of one of the greatest feuds in the history of WWE?

Which will be mentioned alongside the likes of Andre/Hogan, Hogan/Warrior, Hogan/Savage, Bret/Owen, Bret/Austin, Austin/Vince, Austin/Rock, Rock/Mankind, Rock/HHH, HBK/HHH, HBK/Bret, Taker/HBK, Taker/Kane, and Taker/Mankind when the fans are talking about the greatest feuds to eve grace the WWE ring?

PoLL!!How Many Of These Things Will I Need To Quit To Make Quitting Smoking An Easier Process?

Well see... I have some bad addictions,some just wants not so much addictions........Coffee everyday, I drink wine on the weekends and i smoke a lot of pot....I really prefer to not quit the green but just the cigarettes...?? What would be best to cut out of my life though to make this an easier process??..Thank you.... :)

Was the main event of Wrestlemania 27 (John Cena vs The Miz) The worst WM main event in history?

I'm sick of Cena in general tbh. For me, the main event of WM every year isn't the official main event, but the Undertaker's match, which is likely to soon be his last ever (if he returns, that is.) But yes, it was pretty god damn awful. I do like the Miz though, his mic skills are ok, his wrestling is decent, and he's a good character, so I suppose it was ok

How to accept my boyfriend's sexual experience past with another guy?

I would have a hard time accepting my husband being with anyone besides me. We were both each others 1st. Weve been married for 8yrs. I guess its personal. Think about if you can accept it for the rest of your life before you decide to be together for the rest of your lives

My boyfriend does not pay for expenses, apart from that we are fine. do i stay with him?

my boyfriend does not pay for expenses. he does the odd big job occasionally and he's never really brought home the pay. he is struggling with heroine addiction. when he left to do a job the other day on his way back home i told him not to bother coming home until he brings home the pay. (apart from the money situation i do love this man, he says he loves me and helps around the house etc) after i put my foot down, he told me to get f'd. i feel strong for standing up to him though i'm scared of finding out he has just used me after 7yrs by not coming back or im hoping he'll realise what he's lost and come begging. i text him twice that evening after he hung up & no reply. it is almost 2days after and no contact. i feel terrible, maybe i was too hard, i hope he's ok. do u think he'll be back with his pay? as people say money shouldn't come between people in a relationship, have i done the wrong thing or the right thing. any advice?

My boyfriend has a bad fetish?

My boyfriend has a fetish of being kicked in the balls. He asks me to do it for him mutiple times a day. The doctor said he has mutiple bruises on his balls, and for me to stop, but if I don't do it, he pays stranger girls to kick him in the balls as hard as they can, which I don't like. I've asked him to stop, and he said he would but he says it's an addiction that he can't control. Should I send him to an addiction clinic? I'm worried. Help!

Mothers, would you clean up your act if your ex got into a serious relationship?

No I would have tried to seriously clean up my life before my ex got my kids, but if it got this far I suppose I would try again.

Is porn addiction really a bad thing?

Is porn really a bad thing, or are some people out there just intolerant of that sort of stuff? I mean, i don't think it's bad. I don't see how it does any harm.

Gender Studies: Why are some university students?

People here who aren't in fraternities and sororities usually dislike them, because they're not fun, they have their own cookie cutter and they turn everyone into the same sort of obnoxious cookie, and the things they do for hazing often involve abuse and animal abuse, plus they're usually not too big on hygiene. The ones that don't mind them or like them are usually IN them. It's not jealousy - any fool can join them, if only they are masochistic enough to go through the stuff required to get in.

Please read this poem I'd love some feedback: thinking about writing a book on my life.?

I didn't find it poetic at all. I'll give you that it is sad, but this is a diatribe best saved as an essay, on conditions.

How can I improve my double toe touch?

at first i used a mini trampoline to get into the motion of jumping really high, and then i tried it on land and it really worked. Bend your knees making sure your legs are really firm, sort of use your toes a little when your jumping and spring up off the floor. when you come back down use the exact same motion again, but this time you have greater momentum. Also to get your legs as good as can get, really work on over-splits and that will make your splits look amazing and make them much much easier.

Excuses to not shave your head?

I was considering rushing for a frat next semester, but I have no intention of shaving my head (assuming I become a pledge and get far enough). I've heard of certain exceptions where there's a modelling contract involved but I'm not sure whether I can get something like that. I did have a chance to do something for A&F, but I was too young when they scouted me and I doubt they remember me anyways. Any ideas?! Cause I know buzz cut hair isn't for me...

How would I create this type of website?

I want to create a membership website that takes a yearly fee, which i haven't decided yet. So in this website, members will be able to track how much xbox they've played everyday (just an example). So they plug in their time into a little simple to use table everyday, that data translates into a simple graph for them to see. That's also tied to a clock which uses a formula to calculate their playing time and their risk of death. There's also a forum for people to help eachother out with their gaming addiction (again, just an example as im not gonna set up a gaming addiction website). So every member has this nice little personal page with all their data, graphs, their goals, all that. So how exactly would I create a website like this? Thanks!

My life has been wasted it seems? Should I move to California?

Its not going to be magical or differnt in California. I lived there, its more expensive and the traffic sucks. You can move and start over, but just stop hanging out with those people that bring you down and find people that you enjoy being around.

Shopping addiction please help?

im 19 & have a shopping addiction. my boyfriend is extremely rich. i go to the mall everyday. i frequently shop at victorias secret DEBS and hollister. these works see me in there for days in a row now spending so much money at their stores. is there any way they can ban me from the stores if im spending so much money? does it look weird seeing the same person shopping in your store everday? HELP WHAT DO THEY THINK OF ME!

From scale 1-10, what are the chances of Taker vs HHH III topping Rock vs Cena at WM 28? Why?

I'd say 7-9 for a few reasons. The Rock has been out of action for a long time, I know he's probably gonna have a few warm up matches between now and then and no doubt he'll be training too, but he also has the disadvantage of working with cena who is by all counts average in the ring, where as HHH and Taker are able to work a crowd well because they've both stayed relatively active as performers and have the nostalgia thing working for them where as cena, not so much, most people will be backing the Rock in that match which I HOPE he will win. But HHH and Taker are multi directional style of wrestling so if something goes wrong, they can switch from say a brawl like WM to a submission based match if needs be, The Rock could pull that off, but not cena, he only has the stf and a very basic set of moves! Granted Taker will be out for a long time, but if he returns for HHH Taker 3 it has the best chance to be the better match and I'm SURE it will be. The ONLY reason i'll watch the cena Rock match is to watch The Rock and the Attitude Era destroy the cenation and PG-ERA! IF YA SMEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLELELELEEOOOOO… What The Rock IS COOKIN' *raises eyebrow*

Addicted to Pringles?

I have this, some would call it addiction, to Pringles. I have to buy some when we go shopping and I could eat a whole tube to myself. I HAVE eaten a whole tube to myself. Several times. Is there a way I can get over this, because it's gotten to the point where I have to have some everyday. Any help appreciated :)

Who is ur favorite Wrestler still wrestling ?

HHH, Taker, Kane, Show and believe it or not, Regal, are the ones that have been wrestling for the longest time now. I like all 5 of them.

I just took 10 depression meds?

i once had an addiction and i think im developing that addiction again. what should i do? should i tell my therapist? im 18 yrs old.

Am I bisexual or just confused?

Alot of girls do experiment these day I haven't done it myself but alot of my friends have and I guess it goes away with time but I don't think you shouldn't ignore your feelings because it just makes u want that person even more male or female. My friends just continue their relationships with their boyfriends and just do "extra" with their female friends, I asked them all the time who would they rather be with and the majority say their man because they have something a female does not have and that is security on many levels. My friends call themselves tri-curious, just be safe when your testing your curiosity. Hope I helped u.

How do I make my ex boyfriend regret dumping me?

wouldn't ask me to be his girlfriend, he joined a frat, trust issues were flying everything. Long story short, he played with my heart so much, never asked me to be his girlfriend when i wasted all year with him trying, I did EVERYTHING for him. Needless to say, end of the year I said either take me seriously or we are ending it. He basically ended it. My heart was broken I felt awful, insecure. It was bad. I did everything for him. So currently I'm home for the summer. I'm wondering, when I go back to school how do I make him notice me? When I walk into that frat party how do i make him regret it? I have been working out, I got a new hair cut. I want to talk to other guys but I heard jealousy only goes so far. How do I talk to guys to not look like a whore and make him mad but make him crazy and completely regret dumping me? i know i shouldnt get back with him i just want him to regret it so i can say sorrryyy your loss! haha can someone help?

Gay Guys: Are my buddies gay together?

I noticed something strange...they are awfully close. They're like brothers...and that's understandable, because they probably are in a bromance together. But...I saw something that kind of caught me off guard....You see, my buddies are the mexican, pretty-boy, frat-guy, loud types. You know, the ones that have fades and groom their moustaches and goatees much like the way mine is in my avatar, play sports, and have kids or chase the ladies? (Yes I'm very observant and analytical, but NOT because I'm gay or bi...that's just the way I am) Anyways, being as how this is the way they are, it caught my very off guard with what I'm about to say....I was in high school when I saw them in front of me greeting each other aggressively, like guys, and then.... <:-D .....walked away with each other STILL holding each other's hands, haha! XD I freaked, mainly because it was passing period and there was a lot of people in the area. They didn't hold each other's hand for a long time, but they did they DID hold each other's hands for a brief moment, haha. Now, my question for you gay guys is....are my buddies gay together? I am just curious really. It's not because I'm secretly gay or bi or something...it's just they're my friends, and I would just like to know if they're gay or bi without asking THEM cause I don't want to embarrass them.

Do I have a music addiction? Or what?

This might sound really dumb but music gets in the way of everything for me. I love music and all of my hobbies are musical ones but my biggest one seems to be just listening to music. It stops me from doing anything else either creative or just watching TV for example because I can't turn it off. I just end up browsing the internet for random crap to read and doing things like asking this question. It is really bothersome however. I also get really anxious.

When will you want the undertaker to retire:on or after WM 28 or before WM28?

Do you want him to go undefeated or do you want him to retire putting over an up and coming superstar.?

How do I get my ex boyfriend back?

If you love him and he loves you and you both care about each other then yeah go back out. I NEED to go back out with my ex but he won't listen. Ima wreck&he doesn't understand the things I've done for him. So don't take any chances just do it. I can't bare karma atm.

How can I stop my moms abuser?

I am 17 and I live in a different province from my mom because of her abuser. He has abused her for the past 2 years to the point of almost killing her. She has slept in ditches to avoid being near him but won't leave him. I want to be with my mom but because of this guy who has been in and out of jail for these 2 years for domestic abuse her whole life suffers. He brings her into a lot of drugs and booze and has some really bad addiction issues because of him. I have tried calling the cops but it just makes everything worse and now because my mom bailed him out of jail with her house as callatoral if he does get arrested she will lose the house and that would hurt her even more then he does now and she would despise me. She has contemplated suicide before. I just really want to know what to do because this is really killing me inside...

Who do U think is Going to Retire Next ?

Well Undertaker is considered retired as of Wrestlemania 27 anyways.So other than him I think maybe HHH or Vince McMahon. I saw Vince McMahon because over the years he has been gradually giving out the responsibility to Stephanie and/or HHH.He is notorious for handling things on his own so this is weird.I say HHH because he has gotten more backstage responsibility and it might be to much handling talent and wrestling full time.

Why doesnt anyone care about me? is there something wrong with me?

Jane you are obviously deeply scarred by years of your mothers verbal abuse its good you recognize and acknowledge your mother had or perhaps still has problems all directly related to some serious underlying issues from her past that sadly enough havent been dealt with. Pray for your mother ask The Good Lord to heal her hurt and let go of the anger and bitterness from the past. And perhaps schedule an appointment with a clinical psychiatrist who may refer her to a psychologist for further evaluation. Helping your mother in this way is your way of letting her know you are concerned about her emotional and mental well being. It will give her the encouragement she may be embarassed or afraid to go alone. Understand you are not at fault never forget your self worth as a woman. You have to love yourself on the inside how you feel reflects who you become on the outside! Do what makes you happy and feel good doing it! Learn how to deal with constructive criticism because its more than likely your mother will be the first person you hear it from. Tell people you are happy with the way you are! Its also good to get help and do not be afraid to tell someone how you are feeling and whats on your mind. Leave all your burdens to a higher power and place your total faith in Jesus! Remember he never gives us more than we can handle. And no matter what we all go thru always take the time to remember people out in the world are a lot worse off than we are and pray for them. I hope this helps the last thing I have to say is be confident with who you are and dont be afraid to try new things! Loving yourself helps you stay connected in mind, body, and spirit. A well rounded unique individual!

I had a addiction to prescription meds?

i once had a addiction to prescription meds. i took 14 yesterday and i just took 5 a few mins ago. i haven't told my therapist about this. what should i do? am i developing the addiction back? im 18 yrs old.

What are some things adults can do on a 3 day weekend?

I'm coordinating a 3 day weekend for my frat bros and our wives in July. The first night when everybody gets here we're going to have a cookout here at my house, but that's all I can think of to do. I live in L.A. and the only other thing I can think of that everybody might like is going to the beach. It will be about 15 of us, and our ages range from about 25-33. Any ideas?

Was this racist ? I don't get it!?

So I was riding my bicycle in town and I'm a brown guy due to being half Egyptian so anyway it was a red light so I pulled up and stopped next to a car with two frat boys, so one of them goes "good afternoon" so I say "yeah", he says "welcome to mcdonalds... can I take your order ?", so I said "you can **** off", anyway they shouted something and ****** off, but I have no idea what the base of that was, was it racist, or just a random insult.

What did you think of the undertaker and batista fude from 2007?

Best Feud of 2007, Batista's greatest feud ever, and oen of Taker's top 5 feud, only below his feuds with Kane, Mankind, HBK, and Edge.

Is this a good first scene?

honestly, i can't focus on it when it's all in caps, it's a bit confusing, odd names, also frat boys..not the most interesting topic. and hazing? yikes. i hope your film isn't in support of that. anyway. sorry, but i'm being honest..however!! keep going, see what happens, ask around, start filming and see what happens :D you got potential!

Who has baby daddy advice?

I have seen this before with a few friends and one of my family members and all i can say is if he cant handle being there for you while your caring his unborn child its a good chance but not a defendant possibility that he wont be there for you after the child is born.... or for the child.... and if he is it might not be the support you want or thought u would have BUT that doesn't mean its a good idea to keep him away from the baby you and him is you and him but he is still the father if he chooses to put less important things in front of his child thats his mistake and he will be the one missing out and at least your baby will have you and when the child becomes older you wont have to worry about him/her blaming you for keeping them apart he/she will see it was his choice not to be a father. the only way i would see keeping him away from the child a good thing is if he was doing drugs or drinking around the child or being abusive towards the child other than that i would always keep the opportunity open for him to see the child as far as you two none of us on here know him or you really?? go with your gut hunnie i first became pregnant at 18 and had my daughter at 19 i was with the father for 2 years prior to the baby kinda just like you and ur guy BUT he was there for me in every way while i was pregnant he never was a party guy he would drink and get drunk here and there and hang with his friends but it all changed when i became pregnant he even came home and cleaned the house after i had the baby while i was still in the hospital just so i could be totally relaxed when i got home if your guy isnt acting the way you want him to now chances are slim that he will change i hope for you and your baby he does but some guys dont and some guys do when they see there baby its like a 50/50 thing.... now what ive said may make my life with my babys father sound perfect but no one is we have had are ups and downs... god knows we have.. but i always knew he was going to be a great dad his dad was never around and neither was mine i seen how he was with kids which was great and i knew from the moment i became pregnant that he would be there for our daughter whether he wanted to be with me or not and thats what honestly counts!! ive been in your shoes and if your gut is telling you hes been unfaithful chances are you are right.... god knows i was!!! but that doesnt mean you two wont last but that depends on if you can forgive and if he can change but in order for change to happen he has to really want it.. and from personal experience forgiveness is sooooooo much harder than him changing.. i forgave but never forgot and that did not help anything until i broke up with him and went out with an old boyfriend even tho i didnt cheat it hurt him crushed him is more like it i never really even wanted to be with that guy now years later i look back and realize i was just getting back at him and after that we got back together and ya know what i didnt throw up him cheating on me in fights anymore but thats me i still have not forgot but i feel we are even now so it dont bother me...as much... but if i could do it over i would have went a different route getting even isnt always the best thing but it worked for ME but i wouldnt try it k anyway like i said we got over it and im now on child number 2 and we are married and very happy and he never has done that again we now have been together for 8years and out of those 8 been married for 3 no one on here is really gonna have the answers you need on your question about the quote if its meant to be it will come back and its yours.... almost all asshole guys who dont deserve a good women will keep coming back cause they know how lucky they are and have had there fun already that doesnt mean you should take them back based off of that take them back not because they came back but because of there actions make him work for it you deserve that!!!! hopefully my out look on the situation/advice and story has maybe helped you in some way!!! best of luck for you and congrats on your little bundle of joy being a mother truly is the best thing in life :) with me and my husband we were young and dumb but made it threw it but you both have to want it not just you!!