How to Win my Ex-Girlfriend Heart Back?

Unfortunately, if she said she looks at you like a best friend and not a boyfriend, things may stay that way. If she's 19 now, I assume you first got together when she was 17? At 17, not all girls really have a clear idea of what they want in a boyfriend. Personally, I had no physical attraction to my first two boyfriends- great friends, but no chemistry, and I didn't figure out until I was 18 that chemistry is absolutely vital. It may be that she just realized that there's no chemistry, and if that's the case, it isn't anyone's fault, least of all yours, but she wouldn't be likely to change her mind.